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First Steps To Get Over Your Ex

Journaling Prompts

What was my initial reaction to the breakup? How has this changed/evolved?

What are the thoughts and emotions that keep coming up for me?

What do I need to release in order to move forward? (This could be emotions, memories, or expectations.)

How can I create a ritual or symbol to represent letting go of this relationship?

What small steps can I take today to care for myself, both physically and emotionally?

What am I making the breakup mean about me? About relationships? About the future? Is this helpful?

When You Have To See Your Ex

Journaling Prompts

What am I most worried or anxious about? How can I manage these feelings?

What do I want to happen/don’t want to happen when I see my ex?

How do I want to present myself during this encounter?

How will I handle it if unexpected emotions arise?

What will I do after seeing my ex to care for myself emotionally?

What boundaries do I need to set for myself to protect my emotional well-being?

Difficult Emotions

Journaling Prompts

What specific emotions am I feeling right now? (e.g., sadness, anger, confusion, jealousy, relief)

  • How intense are these emotions on a scale from 1 to 10?

  • Where do I physically feel these emotions in my body?

If this emotion could speak, what would it say to me?

Is there a lesson or insight I can gain from sitting with this difficult emotion?

Self-Love & Confidence

Journaling Prompts

Where have I shown strength and resilience?

How can I forgive myself for past mistakes or perceived shortcomings?

How can I remind myself daily that I am deserving of love, happiness, and kindness?

How have I grown as a person over the last few years? What positive changes have I noticed in myself?

How have I improved in loving and accepting myself over the past month?

How can I treat myself more like someone I love?

What do I like about myself? Love about myself?

Processing The Breakup

Journaling Prompts

What do I want my life to look like moving forward? What are my hopes and dreams for the future?

What do I miss most about the relationship, and what do I not miss at all?

What have I learned about myself through this relationship and breakup?

What would I do differently in future relationships based on what I’ve learned?

What activities, people, or practices help me feel better when I’m down?

Who am I without this relationship? What parts of myself do I want to reconnect with?

What new opportunities or experiences can I explore now that I’m on my own?

How can I use this time to rediscover my passions, interests, and goals?

What excites me about the future, even if it’s still unclear?